Clergy Sexual Abuse Is SO Damaging! – Divorce Minister

2 And it came to pass in an eveningtide, that David arose from off his bed, and walked upon the roof of the king’s house: and from the roof he saw a woman washing herself; and the woman was very beautiful to look upon. 3 And David sent and enquired after the woman. And one said, “Is… Continue reading Clergy Sexual Abuse Is SO Damaging! – Divorce Minister

Complications from “theft of reality” – Divorce Minister

I do not remember precisely where I read or heard the term “theft of reality.” Most likely, I came upon it through Chump Lady or one of the many books I have read on spiritual abuse. “Theft of reality” is a term used to describe how we–faithful spouses–experience a marital narrative with serious truth–and thereby reality–gaps. We… Continue reading Complications from “theft of reality” – Divorce Minister

Reminder: Cheating is abuse! – Divorce Minister

Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! – 1 Corinthians 6:15b, NIV When someone is a cheater, they are also an abuser. You cannot have one without the other. Soul rape is abusive. I am astounded by how cheating and adultery are too often treated as less than… Continue reading Reminder: Cheating is abuse! – Divorce Minister

Cheating is abuse. It is not morally neutral behavior. – Divorce Minister

Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! – 1 Corinthians 6:15b, NIV When someone is a cheater, they are also an abuser. You cannot have one without the other. Soul rape is abusive. I am astounded by how cheating and adultery are too often treated as less than… Continue reading Cheating is abuse. It is not morally neutral behavior. – Divorce Minister