Validation before talking forgiveness – Divorce Minister

Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and nights. No one said a word to Job, for they saw that his suffering was too great for words. –Job 2:13, NIV Please do not underestimate how traumatic and disorienting discovering marital infidelity is! Speaking from my personal experience as well as from… Continue reading Validation before talking forgiveness – Divorce Minister

Reconcile Quickly

One of my favorite stories from The Office is the plot of Season 2, Episode 21, titled “Conflict Resolution.” In the episode, the blundering boss, Michael Scott, wants to show his management skills by resolving workplace disputes. He pulls out his corporate binder full of instructions and spends the entire episode making all the conflicts worse. It… Continue reading Reconcile Quickly

The Story of the Adulterous Woman: Compassion and redemption in modern society

In the bustling streets of Jerusalem, a group of Pharisees and scribes brings a woman caught in the act of adultery before Jesus. They were testing his wisdom and adherence to Mosaic law. They ask whether she should be stoned, as the law prescribes. Jesus responds with the famous words, “Let him who is without… Continue reading The Story of the Adulterous Woman: Compassion and redemption in modern society

Answering Tough Questions About Forgiveness

This series was first published in April 2016. -ed. Forgiveness can be very hard to grant—even Christians commonly wrestle with it. I am convinced that many, if not most, Christian counseling sessions are related to struggles with forgiveness. It is a subject that does pose difficult questions. Today, we’ll consider some of the major ones.… Continue reading Answering Tough Questions About Forgiveness

The Blessings of Forgiveness

This series was first published in April 2016. -ed. Forgiveness is Christianity at its highest level. It reflects God’s immense forgiveness through Christ, and no human expression of forgiveness could ever surpass what Christ has done for us. But extending forgiveness to others also brings with it great blessings upon the Christian life. Let’s conclude… Continue reading The Blessings of Forgiveness

First Friday Prayers: Prayers for Forgiveness

“Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.”  Colossians 3:13 NIV It’s easy to forget at times that our offenses against the God of the universe are great.  Any sin is too much for our Heavenly Father to associate with.  Without His… Continue reading First Friday Prayers: Prayers for Forgiveness

Top Bible verses about forgiving yourself you should remember

Some Bible verses about forgiving yourself and God’s forgiving nature can help you love yourself again. Reading the Bible is helpful to you, especially if you feel so down or make a mistake you don’t know how to correct.  Repentance is necessary when we are wrong, but the Bible also stresses the need to grow… Continue reading Top Bible verses about forgiving yourself you should remember

The Seven Last Sayings of Christ: A Plea for Forgiveness

This post was first published in March, 2015. —ed. Because of the physical rigors of crucifixion, Christ spoke only with great difficulty during His final hours on the cross. Scripture records just seven brief sayings from the Savior on the cross, but every one of them reveals that Christ remained sovereignly in control, even as… Continue reading The Seven Last Sayings of Christ: A Plea for Forgiveness