Then they sat on the ground with him for seven days and nights. No one said a word to Job, for they saw that his suffering was too great for words. –Job 2:13, NIV Please do not underestimate how traumatic and disorienting discovering marital infidelity is! Speaking from my personal experience as well as from… Continue reading Validation before talking forgiveness – Divorce Minister
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Complications from “theft of reality” – Divorce Minister
I do not remember precisely where I read or heard the term “theft of reality.” Most likely, I came upon it through Chump Lady or one of the many books I have read on spiritual abuse. “Theft of reality” is a term used to describe how we–faithful spouses–experience a marital narrative with serious truth–and thereby reality–gaps. We… Continue reading Complications from “theft of reality” – Divorce Minister
Reminder: Cheating is abuse! – Divorce Minister
Should a man take his body, which is part of Christ, and join it to a prostitute? Never! – 1 Corinthians 6:15b, NIV When someone is a cheater, they are also an abuser. You cannot have one without the other. Soul rape is abusive. I am astounded by how cheating and adultery are too often treated as less than… Continue reading Reminder: Cheating is abuse! – Divorce Minister
Four Months: 29,000+ Views and Visitors From Over 60 Different Countries – Divorce Minister
DIVORCE MINISTER: LOOKING BACK & LOOKING FORWARD In July 2014, I dipped my toe in the water by starting a blog on a free blogging site. It was just going to be a repository for my thoughts on adultery and divorce. Maybe a few of my friends and family would humor me and read my… Continue reading Four Months: 29,000+ Views and Visitors From Over 60 Different Countries – Divorce Minister
I hate the movie “Fireproof” – Divorce Minister
For a time is coming when people will no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They will follow their own desires and will look for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. – 2 Timothy 4:3, NIV About five years ago, a major marital craze went through the American, evangelical… Continue reading I hate the movie “Fireproof” – Divorce Minister
God’s Emotional Response To Adultery – Divorce Minister
“‘You adulterous wife! You prefer strangers to your own husband! All prostitutes receive gifts, but you give gifts to all your lovers, bribing them to come to you from everywhere for your illicit favors. So in your prostitution you are the opposite of others; no one runs after you for your favors. You are the very opposite, for you… Continue reading God’s Emotional Response To Adultery – Divorce Minister